Friends Before Lovers
I read many long distance relationship blogs to feel part of a community. To understand how long distance relationship works. For support, also to get some comfort that, I am not the only one in this situation.
One of the few things I noticed they talked about was How To Overcome Fights In Long Distance Relationships. Curious, i clicked on them, tried to relate them to my fights with Don and realised that I couldn’t. They were really helpful tips and advice but, I didn’t get it. Why? I mean, we do fight. We do right? Only to realise that… Don and I don’t really fight. Okay, maybe not big fights where “I thnk we should hang up now” or “Leave me alone, I don’t want to talk to you”
But when we do, we argue about Cats vs Dogs (Cats ftw!), our music/movie taste and when we are together – What do you want to eat? I dont know. What do you want to eat? I asked you! Other than that, not really… Is that normal for long distance relationships? Is there something missing with us? We’ve never fought about the distance or letting the frustrations from the distance get to us.